virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« on: 2003-03-04 05:59:04 »
...well, the doctor chick ive been dating with very little intimacy for 5 1/2 months might be out the door. i unexpectedly came to know this new gal who seems to be minus all the emotional issues that the doctor girl had... im currently tied to both of them! i hate to give up on the doctor chick but she's such a dead end it sometimes seems. anyways, here's the new one - we're already around the bases and far more emotionally bonded than 5+ months with the doctor chick ever acheived. what should i do? photo of new girl enclosed...give opinions please.
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #1 on: 2003-03-05 02:45:38 »
bye, bye doctor chick..........
Walter
Dr Sebby wrote:
> ...well, the doctor chick ive been dating with very little intimacy for 5 > 1/2 months might be out the door. i unexpectedly came to know this new gal > who seems to be minus all the emotional issues that the doctor girl had... > im currently tied to both of them! i hate to give up on the doctor chick > but she's such a dead end it sometimes seems. anyways, here's the new one - > we're already around the bases and far more emotionally bonded than 5+ > months with the doctor chick ever acheived. what should i do? photo of new > girl enclosed...give opinions please. > > DrSebby. > "Courage...and shuffle the cards". > > _________________________________________________________________ > The new MSN 8: advanced junk mail protection and 2 months FREE* > http://join.msn.com/?page=features/junkmail > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Name: Laura Monteiro.jpg > Laura Monteiro.jpg Type: JPEG Image (image/jpeg) > Encoding: base64
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #2 on: 2003-03-05 09:21:43 »
In a message dated 3/5/2003 7:59:12 AM Central Standard Time, Jkr438@aol.com writes:
In a message dated 3/5/2003 1:54:18 AM Central Standard Time, wlwatts@cox.net writes:
bye, bye doctor chick..........
Walter
[Jake] . . . took the words right out of my mouth . . . You go!, Sebby!
Love,
-Jake
[Jake2] I might add that you should try to kiss off as nicely as possible with the doctor chick, 'cause she probably has some friends who may need some "Sebby attention" at some future date ;-), but you were probably already considering that.
...well, the doctor chick ive been dating with very little intimacy for 5 1/2 months might be out the door. i unexpectedly came to know this new gal who seems to be minus all the emotional issues that the doctor girl had... im currently tied to both of them! i hate to give up on the doctor chick
but she's such a dead end it sometimes seems. anyways, here's the new one -
we're already around the bases and far more emotionally bonded than 5+ months with the doctor chick ever acheived. what should i do? photo of new
girl enclosed...give opinions please.
DrSebby. "Courage...and shuffle the cards".
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More views damnit Sebby! That beauty's modelling card is no good, we want the bedroom shots!
Regards
Jonathan
P.S. I though the doctor was very cute....that smile..think about that smile
[Jake] I think the best smiles are the ones that come after several orgasms and a romp in the hay. So if that has anything to do with it, I think Sebby will like the smile of this new girl better.
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #6 on: 2003-03-05 18:34:51 »
Listen to Jonathan man! How are we supposed to be fair judges if there are no action shots?
Bill
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>More views damnit Sebby! That beauty's modelling card is no good, we want >the bedroom shots! > >Regards > >Jonathan > >P.S. I though the doctor was very cute....that smile..think about that smile > >-----Original Message----- >From: owner-virus@lucifer.com [mailto:owner-virus@lucifer.com] On Behalf Of >Dr Sebby >Sent: Tuesday, March 04, 2003 10:59 AM >To: virus@lucifer.com >Subject: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews > > > >...well, the doctor chick ive been dating with very little intimacy for 5 >1/2 months might be out the door. i unexpectedly came to know this new gal >who seems to be minus all the emotional issues that the doctor girl had... >im currently tied to both of them! i hate to give up on the doctor chick > >but she's such a dead end it sometimes seems. anyways, here's the new one - > >we're already around the bases and far more emotionally bonded than 5+ >months with the doctor chick ever acheived. what should i do? photo of new > >girl enclosed...give opinions please. > > >DrSebby. >"Courage...and shuffle the cards". > > > > >_________________________________________________________________ >The new MSN 8: advanced junk mail protection and 2 months FREE* >http://join.msn.com/?page=features/junkmail > >--- >To unsubscribe from the Virus list go to <http://www.lucifer.com/cgi-bin/virus-l> > > >
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #7 on: 2003-03-05 19:03:34 »
What I find interesting is that you, Sebby, feel it's appropriate to get advice on a girl based on whether you have sex and whether she's attractive - you don't mention her intellect, her compassion, her interests, what you have in common, etc. - so you've obviously made up your mind and are now just looking for the inevitable ball-size-acknoweldgement because she's hot.
So, good for you, you got a hot chick. No doubt the doctor is hot as well. Wonderful! Splendid!
I'm so impressed with you "gentlemen".
I am perhaps basing my irritation more on the level of the responses you've been getting, Sebby, than on your original query, so I apologize if that's the case. Your original query was quite meaningful, with the exception of the attachment of the photo for all to objectify and debase with Am-I-Hot critique. Is this just a "man thing"
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i hate to give up on the doctor chick but she's such a dead end it sometimes seems.
If it seems like it's a dead-end relationship, it's best to just end it, because you most likely are right. I was in a simular situation about 6 months ago. I was going with with this girl Steph, and it seemed to be going no where. She wanted me to become some nice Christian boy, and marry her... have kids... etc. She was my friend for a VERY long time, since middle school.. but it was going no where.
I started talking to this girl (Brittany) a couple weeks before me and Steph's break up. (Note: it was evident that me and her was going to break up.) I talked to her for a couple weeks after work. We both got off around 10PM, and usually didn't get home untill 5AM or so. So, we got to know each other better in a few weeks then I got to know Steph in 6 years.
Like I said, if it seems dead-end just end it. There is no need to drag the dead-horse around with you.
Anothing thing, I know you didn't ask, but I'll tell you anyways. I do not know how your relationships are normally, but most of mine before the one I am currently in was way to restrictive. Both of us in the relationship would always "play our role." If you know what I mean. In my current relationship both of us do not play the role of being the "boyfriend" and "girlfriend." This allowing us to be a hell of a lot more open with each other. If you do not feel asif you can tell a woman anything and everything... then it's not really worth trying IMHO. Communication is everything.
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #12 on: 2003-03-05 23:56:12 »
[Feagwath]It's obviously a "hormone thing". The hungry person's opinion of food differs from that of the satiated.
Consistantly with the past, Mermaid, it would seem that you are quite jaded and single-minded.
Furthermore, I've seen women speak all to often like this, forgetting that they themselves are subject to their own hormonal fluctuations, and often do equally stupid things under their sway.
Myself, having about 4% body fat, have relatively no libido, but plenty of hunger. The fact that I've never had a sexual partner in my twenty years doesn't bother me all that much, and sex occupies my mind considerably less than 1% of my typical day.
But from the very little information that you have disclosed, I would offer nothing but general advice Dr. Sebby. My main qualification in giving this advice is my personal witness and understandings of the mechanics of many long-term relationships. I would say, that if you are looking to establish an intimate long-term relationship, that you should consider, as objectively as possible, the qualities that have remained constant in your character, behavior, and personality throughout your life. Also, if you know yourself to have any strong chemical dependencies(such as sexual gratification, or alcohol), that cause you to differ from and occasionally oppose your normal qualities, then you should look for a partner that has a large capacity to be understanding and open-minded. I could go on, but this post is already too long. I hope you, or someone at least, will find this little advice somewhat helpful....
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Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #13 on: 2003-03-06 00:24:04 »
In a message dated 3/5/2003 6:44:09 PM Central Standard Time, britannica@hotmail.com writes:
[Michelle]Is this just a "man thing"
[Mermaid]Yes, Michelle...it is...
[Jake] True to the inner attention hogs that all women harbor, they become grumpy because someone else's personal life receives more than their own. No, not a man thing, a dear friend whom I love named Sebby thing. Because he is the only one like him, I like him just the way he is. He's special to me. Does that upset you, girls?
Re: virus: Sebby's new girl. open for reviews
« Reply #14 on: 2003-03-06 04:28:07 »
...actually michelle, it's quite a dilemma for me. i get along wonderfully with the doctor chick, but the severe limitations she puts on our relationship go far beyond just sex...and what's worse is that it is all pretty much because of her fussy old-fashioned "live in a box till youre 100yrs old and completely safe" mother. so what im saying is that a painful and cruel goodbye is in order for one of them...well, pretty much the doctor gal for certain. but it's a very uncomfortable situation and i fear i'll add to her already fierce paranoia about emotional approximation if i just walk away from her.
...your other point is not quite valid - of course the other attributes are crucial...i wouldnt even bother getting to know a gal if they were lacking them. i sort of figured that it goes without saying...i suppose the female mind and the male mind sometimes have a difficult time coming to understand each other, hence your upsettedness. and in truth i wouldve presented this situation differently if i had been speaking to a girl (which i have done..all with a unanimous result - the doctor gal is tweaked in some way).
What I find interesting is that you, Sebby, feel it's appropriate to get advice on a girl based on whether you have sex and whether she's attractive - you don't mention her intellect, her compassion, her interests, what you have in common, etc. - so you've obviously made up your mind and are now just looking for the inevitable ball-size-acknoweldgement because she's hot.
So, good for you, you got a hot chick. No doubt the doctor is hot as well. Wonderful! Splendid!
I'm so impressed with you "gentlemen".
I am perhaps basing my irritation more on the level of the responses you've been getting, Sebby, than on your original query, so I apologize if that's the case. Your original query was quite meaningful, with the exception of the attachment of the photo for all to objectify and debase with Am-I-Hot critique. Is this just a "man thing"
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