Interesting that you would post a definition that is perfectly consistent
with my intended usage. Notice is says "esp." (not "always") and "selfish
or unfair" (not "selfish and unfair"). When I said that love is consensual
mutual exploitation I meant to connote a selfish aspect (not nasty-selfish,
but enlightened self-interest selfish), and I hope it is obvious that
"consensual mutual" means that it is not at all unfair.
Ken brings up a couple good points. I did assume that the feelings are
shared by both parties. Is unrequited love the same sort of love?
Certainly there are many kinds: "I love my family", "she loves her dog",
"he loves his shoes", "they love to surf".
Also, my characterization could equally apply to friends, and now that
I think about it, to employers/employees as well. I still think my
statement is true, but I won't pretend to say that it describes more
than one aspect of that which we call love.
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