I have found it very useful not to want to look at issues such as
--do I really want to be in this relationship?
--if I can find someone this good who loves me so much, couldn't I find
someone better who loves me a little less?
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-----Original Message-----
From: owner-virus@lucifer.com [mailto:owner-virus@lucifer.com]On Behalf
Of Eric Boyd
Sent: Tuesday, February 9, 1999 8:32 PM
To: virus@lucifer.com
Subject: Re: virus: Scientists and Philosophers
Hi,
Richard Brodie <richard@brodietech.com>:
<<
3. It's a difference of degree. Faith is more like not wanting to look
at evidence; the issue is closed in other words. This can be extremely
useful in human ventures such as marriage.
>>
WHAT! I don't know what kind of relationship you like, Brodie, but I can't see how an ostrich approach is going to be useful. Are you seriously claiming that, given evidence, it is useful in a marriage to "not want to look at it"?
Useful how?
ERiC