In a program on the Dutch TV- network BNN, defined light as Fuck and Suck ( about sex and drugs), the audience was faced with a dilemma:_ never have sex again, including masturbation, or having sex solely with somebody of the same gender ! Nothing to worry about !? Not quite !!
For most woman it wouldn 't be any problem !Most (young) men on the contrary held back and choose for no sex till the bitter end ! Strange, because all the more naturally, men, women say, think about sex for more than a 150 times a day. Woman in the audience, told that sex was an important part of their daily lives; for the fun of it; for the intimicy and so... So, they spell out, they stood open ( despite their heterosexuality) for having sex with another woman. All men, after a few seconds of steaming reflection, concluded that a complete sexless life was highly better rather than dealing with anything else. Final_ not everything goes !! Are you smiling !? Is it a question about lenght !? Measurement !? What is the final evaluation !? The fact that the taboo of men ' doin' it ' with eachother is still far more greater than 2 woman tangled up and having sex !?
But who is fooling who !? The program's dazzing answer is that men deprived from any female company turn easily to eachother. Or probably would doin 'it with an inflatable doll or with sheep! Not all, but in full flight !? Isn 't the fact of the matter not a question of male simplicity !? For, it must be repeated, a woman isn 't less female just because she fucks another ! Realise, we wouldn 't even call her a lesbo ! Otherwise, no man would for ever more leave his wife alone in the room with another woman! The risk that she would be carried away by the finger in her string is by far too great! But a man turning body and soul at the sight of his fellow men, and in particular, that something that can go up, is quite simply not done! That makes a man a homosexual ! Not that we want to nail every homosexual in town. For, it must be repeated, all have the right to live, in their own right, anywhere the like. But as long, all others see me as a potent, implicit, performant heterosexual.
Fascinated by this point the hostess attention was drawn to the fact that no woman was sexual aroused by the thought of 2 men having sex, where by the opposite idea men easily reach the point of no return.
All I know from the discussed point of view onward, is that our sexuality is a complex, incoherent system where misstepping and misunderstandings underly the natural desire of having sex !!